The Colour Purple and other Fairy Tales

The Wedding part 2 (go here for part 1)

The most important thing to choose after you've chosen your bridegroom is, apparently the 'wedding colours'. And maybe a theme.  Maybe the colours are the theme...  Fortunately for Mousie, she didn't have to think very hard about the colours.  She didn't have to tell me either, coz I just knew they would be... Purple, Silver and Black.

The theme came about from the invitation wording, which I found on the interwebs.  I sent a whole bunch of wording possibilities for her to choose from but I just knew she would choose the one she chose.



A fairytale invitation

"Join us for a Fairy Tale Wedding, the beginning of our 'Happily Ever After'."  So I figured she sorta chose her theme right there, i.e. we're going with a slight fairy tale theme.  I suggested tiny bottles of fairy dust for the girly wedding gifts and she thought maybe chocolates with appropriate wording for the boys.  Let us know if you have any other cost effective ideas for wedding guest gifts. It has also been decided (I think the decision is final) that the wedding cake will be a mountain of fairy cakes.  Cupcakes are also known as fairy cakes, so there you go.

I may buy them each a fairy crown.  Maybe...

Yesterday we returned to the venue so that the happy couple could decide on their table settings.  There were two possibilities and in the end it was decided to alternate the two table settings.

Table setting one.

Table setting two

The centrepieces will be like the one on table two, a posey of purple flowers.  And the serviettes will be purple and black.



Something like this, but with black.

The floral centrepieces. The wedding bouquets will be similar.

My parents came with to see the venue, and add any ideas.  They really liked the place.  Even PopHaw said it was just right for them and kind of cozy and MaHaw added some great ideas for the table decor. 



Busy, busy making ideas.

The menu was briefly discussed and some changes were made.  We also more or less decided how we're going to do the music.  Oh did I mention?  I'm in charge of all the wedding music (insert evil cackle here).  To save money, and because I have a wealth of musical material, it was decided not to have a DJ.  We will be getting decent speakers and I will be running everything from my laptop.  Speaking of which, I have 8 versions of Hava Nagila just for the happy, happy day ;)




Serious business, weddings.



All in all progress was made, and Mousie and Darren seem quite happy with all the arrangements so far.

Don't they?



So those are the plans, so far. Dresses are being discussed.  I want a charcoal dress.  And I need two pairs of shoes, I decided.  One pretty, high heel pair for the chapel, because I never wear high heels (I can't) and I never get the chance to buy such pretty shoes because I don't wear them.  The second pair will be ballet flats in the same colour, for dancing.  I just have to decide on the colour.  I have decided that my sister will be wearing purple shoes, and she also needs a second paior for dancing.  There are no clear wedding dress visions yet, we will be looking for the just right one.

There are a few exploratory shopping days planned for the near future, and I will be sure to keep y'all posted.

Save the date! 24 November 2012

And please send music suggestions for the Wedding Playlist :)

Wedding Bells Are Gonna Chime

My sister, Lisa and her fiance, Darren, have finally set a date.  Well actually, it's not so 'finally', as they only got engaged on Valentine's Day.  But we don't talk about that. The Valentine's Day engagement, I mean.  No we don't... ;)

Weddings are super expensive apparently (I wouldn't know), and we are not extraordinarily wealthy.  But they found a place that was having a 'wedding special' and are getting quite a lot at really good value. So I'm told.

It's not every day you have a wedding in the family, so I thought this would be a good thing to share with y'all.  My sister is eccentric at best, and just plain weird at worst.  So this should be interesting.  I'm the maid of honour. Or the bridesmaid. One of those is what I am, so I get to put in input into this wedding.  Lisa (okay, I cannot call her that. To me she's Mousie, so...) Mousie has asked for my help in the planning because she seems to think I'm a planner and that I have good ideas.  I keep telling her that good are the only sort of ideas I have.  So between the two of us, this wedding could be a disaster!  But at least they have the venue, and the staff there have a good idea as to how these things go, so they may save the day.

On Sunday we went to have a look at the venue. De Haven Oost is about 30 minutes away from my house, and about 2 minutes away from the farm museum where I sometimes work.  It's kind of in the country and away from the hustle and bustle, but I think the thing that really sold it for Mousie and Darren was the unusual, quirky decor and the super relaxed atmosphere.  I took the photos with my phone and they're not great, but you should get the general idea.  Also, as we will be returning during the next three months in preparation for the main event, I will take my camera along for photos for subsequent blog posts.

So come with me and lets plan a wedding!

First, let me introduce you to the happy couple.

Darren Favish on the left. Lisa Haw, soon to be Favish, on the right.
 I'm not familiar with the horny little devil in the middle. 

In Afrikaans we have a saying, 'elke pot het sy deksel'; every pot has it's lid.  And Darren is my sister's lid.  He doesn't get irritated with her (which at times he really should do) and he can calm down her hissy fits like no-one else.

De Haven Oost has a really rustic feel to it.  It should be great for photographs of the happy couple.

As I mentioned, the decor is quirky and this is not the only water feature.

This way to the chapel, restaurant and guest suites.  Notice what's parked underneath that sign?  I wonder if we can get picture of the bride astride that. Or the (okay I just looked it up. I'm the ...) maid of honour.  I think the maid of honour would look superb sitting on that.

Apparently there are guest suites, should guests want to stay overnight.  This particular one, as you can see is the bridal suite.

And everything is made out of corrugated iron! It's SO awesome! We will have this suite at our disposal the morning of the wedding to get the bride all beautiful and blushing and after the whole shebang is over this is where the new Mr. and Mrs. will be spending the night.  We don't talk about that either (she's my sister, eeeeew).  And the next morning they will be served a bridal breakfast before they leave.

The chapel.  Mousie was particularly taken with the fairy lights.  I seem to be rubbing off on her.  Now this will be a non-denominational wedding. Darren is Jewish, Mousie is Christian in a Methodist kind of way, but neither are fervent in their religious beliefs.  However, a few traditional elements could be fun (wags eyebrows at Mousie..), a little glass smashing, a little Hava Nagila... Huh? HUH?! Exactly right.  All my ideas are good.

The reception hall.  Check out those cool chairs!

The table of honour for the bride and groom. Just them.  I will insist they keep it this way for Mousie's wedding.  It will make it easier to throw things at the happy couple when they are sitting front and centre if no-one is around them.

The dance-floor/lounging area.  It's a little separated from the main reception hall which is great.  If my music machines make music loud enough for this space, I will be in charge of the music. Hehe...

More of the reception hall with an example of a seating chart.

The public restroom!  I just can't wait to pee here!

Another water feature.  See? Quirky.  Photo opportunities galore!

"Alcohol is a misunderstood vitamin."  This wedding has awesome potential!



So save the date! 24 November 2012.  And follow our progress or lack thereof right here.